Learning your place in no way implies that you are forced into being someone or doing something. Quite the contrary.
What I mean here is learn your place where you fit in to the Force.
As you work on what it means to be you,
1. Assess your strengths. What are you good at? What are you great at?
2. Assess your weakness and not only admit you need work in some areas of life, but make changes.
3. Study your interests in people, hobbies and general tastes.
As you look at these few things (and I could probably come up with other categories), see what trends you find about yourself. Learn where your skills and gifts lie as you grow as a Jedi in the Force.